Lesbian sex is whatever feels good — grinding, oral, fingers, toys, or all of the above. Experiment, communicate, and have fun!
Scissoring (Tribbing)
- Partners interlock legs like scissors and grind vulva-on-vulva (or vulva-on-thigh).
- Variations: side-by-side, one partner on top with legs split, or sitting face-to-face.
- Best for direct clit-on-clit pressure; intensity depends on angle and hip rocking.
69 (Mutual Oral)
- Classic: one partner on top, heads at opposite ends.
- Side-lying 69 is more relaxed and easier on the neck.
- One partner can lie on their back while the other kneels over their face (face-sitting 69).
Face-Sitting / Queening
- One partner sits on the other’s face (kneeling or squatting).
- Gives the receiver full control of pressure and movement; giver gets an amazing view and easy access to lick everywhere.
Missionary Grind
- One lies on their back, the other lies on top (same as classic missionary but no penetration required).
- Grind clits together, use hands, or slide a double-ended toy/hand between bodies.
Spooning Grind
- Both lie on their sides, big-spoon behind little-spoon.
- Perfect lazy-morning sex; easy to reach around for clit play or finger the front partner.
Doggy Style (Strap-on or Fingers)
- Receiver on all fours or lying flat on stomach.
- Giver uses fingers, tongue, or strap-on from behind.
- Great G-spot angle and feels dominant/submissive if you’re into that.
Lotus-Style Grinding
- Both sit face-to-face, legs wrapped around each other (like the heterosexual lotus).
- Rock and grind slowly; incredibly intimate with eye contact and kissing.
The “Knee Ride”
- One partner lies on their back with one knee raised.
- The other straddles that thigh and rides/grinds against it while the bottom partner fingers or uses a toy.
Double-Ended Dildo Positions
- Missionary, doggy, cowgirl, or seated face-to-face — anything works.
- “The Pretzel”: one partner on their side, the other on their back at a 90° angle — great for deep shared penetration.
Toys That Level Everything Up
- Wearable vibrators (We-Vibe Chorus, Moxie) during grinding
- Strap-ons (harness + dildo) for penetrative sex
- Double-ended dildos (Share, Feeldoe) for mutual penetration
- Finger vibrators (Fin, Dame) or palm vibes for extra clit stimulation
