TOP Sex positions

This guide explores a variety of sex positions, from beginner-friendly to more advanced ones. "All" positions is subjective since there are endless variations, but this covers many popular ones across categories like penetrative, oral, and non-penetrative.

Positions are described primarily for heterosexual couples but can be adapted for same-sex partners, solo play with toys, or any gender configuration.

Focus on communication, consent, lubrication, and safety—experiment at your own pace. Each section includes a brief description, benefits, and variations.

One partner lies on their back while the other is on top, facing them for penetration. Legs can be spread, wrapped around, or elevated.

Benefits: Intimate eye contact, kissing, and easy clitoral access. Beginner-friendly with control for the top partner.

Variations: Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) for grinding; legs over shoulders for deeper thrust.

Doggy Style

doggy style

The receiving partner is on all fours; the penetrating partner kneels behind.

Benefits: Deep penetration, G-spot/P-spot stimulation, and room for spanking or hair-pulling if desired.

Variations: Lazy doggy (chest down); standing doggy against a wall; frog leap (receiver's legs together).

Cowgirl / Rider on Top

cowboy / cowgirl

Penetrating partner lies back; receiver straddles facing forward, controlling depth and speed.

Benefits: Receiver in charge; great for clitoral stimulation via grinding; visual appeal.

Variations: Reverse cowgirl (facing away); leaning forward or back for angle changes; squatting for intensity.

Spooning

spooning position

Both lie on their sides, penetrator behind the receiver for rear entry.

Benefits: Relaxed and cuddly; ideal for slow, sensual sex or when tired; easy reach for breasts or clitoris.

Variations: Twisted spoon (receiver turns upper body); leg lift for better access; anal spooning.

69

69 position in sex

Partners lie head-to-toe, simultaneously performing oral sex on each other.

Benefits: Mutual pleasure; builds equality; can be teasing or intense.

Variations: Side-by-side for comfort; one on top; standing 69 (advanced, requires strength).

Lotus

lotus position in sex

Penetrator sits cross-legged; receiver sits on lap facing them, legs wrapped around.

Benefits: Deep intimacy with full-body contact; rocking motion for tantric-style sex.

Variations: Leaning lotus (receiver arches back); yab-yum (spiritual variation with minimal movement).

Standing

Both stand; receiver may lift one leg or bend over; penetrator enters from front or behind.

Benefits: Spontaneous and adventurous; great for showers or quickies.

Variations: Against a wall; carried standing (if strength allows); ballet dancer (one leg hooked high).

Butterfly

Receiver lies on back at bed/table edge, legs up; penetrator stands/kneels between.

Benefits: Deep penetration; easy access to erogenous zones; G-spot focus.

Variations: Legs on shoulders; ankles crossed; with pillow under hips.

Wheelbarrow

Receiver in plank position; penetrator holds legs from behind like a wheelbarrow.

Benefits: Athletic and fun; deep thrusts; core workout.

Variations: Seated wheelbarrow (penetrator sits); half-wheelbarrow (one leg down).

Pile Driver

Receiver on back with legs over head (plow pose); penetrator squats above for downward entry.

Benefits: Extremely deep; intense for both; visual dominance.

Variations: Side pile driver; assisted with furniture; anal version.

Reverse Missionary

Receiver on top, facing away in a missionary-like setup but reversed.

Benefits: Unique angle for penetration; receiver controls; good for anal.

Variations: With grinding; legs extended or bent.

Scissoring

Partners interlock legs like scissors, grinding genitals together (non-penetrative or with toys).

Benefits: Clitoral stimulation; intimate for vulva-vulva contact; adaptable.

Variations: Tribadism (general rubbing); with vibrator; one partner dominant.

Amazon

Receiver squats over penetrator (who lies back), facing forward or reverse.

Benefits: Receiver-dominant; deep control; thigh workout.

Variations: Reverse Amazon; with bouncing or circling motions.

Pretzel Dip

Receiver lies on side; penetrator kneels, straddling one leg while holding the other up.

Benefits: Deep side entry; mix of intimacy and intensity.

Variations: Twisted pretzel; with clitoral play.

Eagle

Receiver lies back with legs spread wide (eagle pose); penetrator kneels between for entry.

Benefits: Wide-open access; deep and exposing.

Variations: Happy baby (legs pulled back); bound eagle (with restraints if consensual).

Bridge

Receiver in bridge pose (back arched, hips up); penetrator kneels or stands for entry.

Benefits: Unique angle; strengthens core; acrobatic feel.

Variations: Supported bridge (with pillows); wheel pose variation.

Face-Sitting / Queening

Receiver sits on partner's face for oral stimulation.

Benefits: Receiver controls pressure; dominant vibe; focused pleasure.

Variations: Reverse face-sitting; with hovering or full weight.

Seashell

Receiver on back, ankles by ears; penetrator on top pressing down.

Benefits: Ultra-deep; compact and intense.

Variations: With bondage elements; slower pace for comfort.

Leapfrog

Like doggy but receiver's head and arms down, hips high.

Benefits: Deeper than standard doggy; submissive feel.

Variations: With arm restraint; faster thrusting.

Ballet Dancer

Standing, receiver lifts one leg high around partner's waist.

Benefits: Romantic and flexible; great for passionate moments.

Variations: Double wrap (both legs up); against a surface.

Tips for Trying New Positions

  • Start slow and communicate.
  • Use props like pillows, straps, or furniture for support.
  • Incorporate toys (vibrators, dildos) for added fun.
  • Consider fitness levels—some require flexibility or strength.
  • Always practice safe sex and aftercare.


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